Comments on: On Forgiving and Forgetting

By: Through The Eyes Of Source - Contemplate This

Through The Eyes Of Source - Contemplate This — Mon, 03 Dec 2007 03:30:37 +0000

[...] have changed evolved dramatically in the last year. My trip to visit my mom would never have be entertained if I had [...]

By: Tricia

Tricia — Wed, 14 Nov 2007 14:17:34 +0000

I can be happy in the midst of unhappy vibes. I have full control over how I choose to feel

when I reach the above, I will know the work I’m doing/lessons/meditating is indeed working. Thanks for sharing … looking forward to the follow up on the trip.
Tricia

By: Gail

Gail — Tue, 13 Nov 2007 22:50:44 +0000

I totally love this post. It speaks about exactly where I am / where I wanna be. I too have just relearned to release the idea that someone has hurt me. But this time I think it will be permanent, because this time I have also learned that I DO NOT need to save THEM, or worry/ feel guilty that they are still in a bad place. I don’t actually have to care about what they think about me, or feel bad that I can’t help them. Its enough to be who I am. Just that simple. No matter what anyone says. I am sooo pleased…

So I have gone beyond just understanding that they have contributed to the wonderful me and my beliefs, albeit via contrast, but I don’t have to worry that they are still in a bad place. No one truly has power over anyone. Nor should they. Simply amazing.

By: Tina Su - Think Simple. Be Decisive

Tina Su - Think Simple. Be Decisive — Mon, 12 Nov 2007 15:39:11 +0000

I love your blog. What a great idea! Keep up the awesome work.
Love & Gratitude,
Tina
Think Simple. Be Decisive.
~ Productivity, Motivation & Happiness

By: Ralph

Ralph — Mon, 12 Nov 2007 04:20:49 +0000

Most people feel that they have an upper hand on someone who has hurt them because they hold a grudge. The exact opposite is true in most cases. Learning to forgive is a hard thing to do sometimes but truley forgiving is an incrediably freeing act. Nice post