Abraham on Influencing Wellness in Those You Love

I don’t normally create clips this long, but I really believe that this clip has some very far reaching implications for anyone who is concerned about the health of a loved one. It also shows healers, out there, how to hone thier skills to create more dramatic results (at least *I* think it does )

Click arrow to listen. Approx. 9 minutes long.

From Abraham-Hicks CD 2/3/08 – Los Angeles CA – CD 4 end of CD

Hotseater:
Esther and I have a mutual friend, who has a very, very scary diagnosis of a disease that no-one’s ever survived. And I pray for her, not a prayer of please God make her well, but of, exactly what you were telling me, what you were saying before, of knowing who she really is.

And she asked me recently why that would work, why that does anything, why that has any power. And while I know that it does, I don’t know how it does. I don’t know how it is that the realization of who someone really is, their wholeness, how that works.

Abraham:
Well, it’s like this. What ever you give your attention to, you give more. So if you look at them in their sickness, you contribute to more of that. If you look at them in their wholeness, you contribute to more of that. And it takes a very powerful focus to ignore the what-is-ness of an illness.

Hotseater:
Well that’s what I want to ask you about. Tell me more about that about, because clearly I don’t want to deny it because that’s another way of focusing on it.

Abraham:
Well, even the word healing turns you upstream because when you are healing something you’re focused upon what you are healing and now you are focused upstream. So what you are wanting to do is Welling. In other words, you want to focus upon the well being. But what is comes down to for you… You see, it’s really as simple as this. When you think about your friend, you can think about your sick friend or your whole friend. But what most struggle with “But there’s a reality that I’m faced with”. And we say, What are you talking about?? YOU are the creator of reality. And you say, “No but my friend is sick”. And we say, “If you focus there how do you feel?” And you say “Awful”. And we say, The reason you feel awful when you focus on your sick friend is because the inner being within you will not focus upon your sick friend. So when you choose to focus upon your sick friend, you use your sick friend as your excuse to tear yourself apart. So then you have to separate the reason you are focusing upon the well friend as opposed to the sick friend. You have to separate that you’re not doing it to be a catalyst to help your sick friend heal because that’s upstream. You’re doing it simply because you don’t want to use her as your excuse to separate yourself from who you are. You want to be who you are. You are selfishly wanting to be in alignment with who you are. And you can not be in alignment, with who you are, and focus upon your sick friend at the same time because the source within you will not focus upon your sick friend at the same time. It’s just that simple.

Hotseater:
So being who I am, aligns me with my true being and her true being?

Abraham:
When you play with this friend and you live the contrast of her sickness, you put her into your vibrational escrow as weller. Do you get it, and it’s hard to get, but we so want you to hear it, do you know that when you are sick, your potential for wellness is greater than it has ever been before? Because when you are sick, you ask for more wellness, and when you ask, it is always given. So in the same way, when you see a friend, who you love, sick, you ask for wellness in a stronger way than ever before.

We are going to go to another level of understanding here. So here is this reality, that you all sorta kinda agree on. “We’re in this room. The room has this many square feet. There are this many people in the room.” There all kinds of facts and evidence about this room. And yet there is a potential for reality beyond what everyone in this room agrees on. You have the ability, and do it all the time, of creating an alternate reality relative to all things.

So when you see your sick friend, you create, for your own purposes, an alternate reality of a well friend. And the source within your tends to that and BEs it. And it so important to realize that this alternate reality of your well friend, your sick friend has no business even knowing about this well friend that you have created, even though she has been the inspiration of it. She has inspired you to create a friend who is weller than ever before, who’s associated with her, vibrationally encoded to her, but nothing about her now reality has anything to do with this that you have given birth to. This creation that you have given birth to. That, now, you want to give undivided attention to.

So now, your friend, your sick friend, has inspired this exceedingly well friend. And when you focus upon this exceedingly well friend, you feel so good because as you focus upon this exceedingly well friend, you find resonance with the source within you, who knows and is this exceedingly well friend. That’s what the power of influence is. So now, you practice it, you think about it, you revel in it, you devour it, you love the feeling of it, you be it, you swoon it in, you know it, you appreciate it because it’s bigger and better than any wellness than you have ever known in your life. It’s so huge.

Now when you glance back at your sick friend, it’s a freaky feeling because it sorta jolts you out of who you have become and, in fact, you could start to resent this sick friend because, in your attention to it, it sort of tears you apart. But you’re so good at it, you focus upon what you know to be, and whether your friend believes in what you are doing or understands what you are doing, you’re stable in your knowledge of that.

So, now, you have this KNOWING of who this person is. And, now, like Jesus and so many other healers, now you behold your formerly, in your mind, sick friend, presently weller than ever you have ever ever known anything to be. A friend who has been the catalyst of alignment for you between you and that which you are calling God in a stronger fashion than ever before, and you are full of the fullness and the well being of that.

And now, you behold your sick friend and you see it not at all. It does not even register with you because you’ve practiced this other KNOWING so much. So, you’re not flinching at where she temporarily is. You’re just KNOWING what really is. And in that KNOWING, you are, like the call of source, what we are talking about that is always calling your toward. Now you are like a satellite dish that is sorta beaming in a signal closer for her to… That’s what the power of influence is.

Your KNOWING is so pervasive, that she beings, because it is so in keeping with her wanting, that now you are giving her an evidential experience of someone not worrying, not afraid, sure and knowing. And now, if she will allow it, she can join you in that picture. And the doctors will say “It’s a miracle” and we will say “It’s the most natural thing in the world”.

This is just an example of the gap getting further apart. It’s just an example of somebody believing in the reality of what is more than the reality of what is in vibrational escrow. And it’s a good thing you don’t create your worlds from your physical disconnected place. It’s a wonderful thing that you are launching forward, forward, forward. That’s why we can speak so unequivocally about the eternal nature of that which we all are. That’s the power of influence.
That’s what true healing is. It’s KNOWING wellness with everything that you are because you’ve practiced it and you care how you feel so much.

And someone might say “Someone’s sick and it bothers me that you won’t commiserate with me.” And you have to say “Can’t do it. Not good for me, not good for you. THIS is what I KNOW. THIS is where I stay. THIS is what I know about this. THESE things I know. This is my KNOWING. This is my KNOWING. This is my KNOWING.” And when you have the good fortune to being up close to somebody who knows something so emphatically about you, THAT is the power of influence. That’s what healing is.