How much do we influence our children’s vibration?

I’m putting it out there for Abraham to pick up on to discuss in a future cd. It seems that when ever I have a question about something, it always seems to show up on a weekly CD in about a month’s time. This issue keeps coming back to me and has really had me thinking recently. If Abe doesn’t discuss this before October, I WILL be asking it in their Asheville workshop in October. By then, I will have the question clearly thought out.

In one of the recent subscription cds, there is a gentleman talking about how he saw a flyer of a beautiful little girl who was dying of leukemia. Within the discussion that ensued, Abraham discusses how babies are born with illnesses or disabilities before they can actually create the “dis-ease” themselves. The vibrations that the mother and people around her have before the baby is born, all influence the “issues” the baby is born with.

I know this is all part of how things are in the vibrational universe. But still, I can’t help feeling sad about how a mother with an ill or disabled baby would feel about that. I know there is a bigger scheme of things at play, but most of the humans here are not at the level yet where they can accept things like this without a great deal guilt about it. The mother would naturally take the “I did this to you” road if they were to listen to what Abraham has to say.

When do children stop being so greatly influenced by the vibrations of those around them? I know I have been battling with the “what you focus on comes to you” with my own children. I have this funky issue where I get really anxious when my kids get sick. The more anxious I get, the sicker they seem to get. I feel that I am causing them to become sicker as I focus on my issues about it all. I have seen improvement in it all now that I have made a conscious effort to see them in the light of wellness and love, even when they are battling a cold. It seems to be working. They are happier when they are all stuffed up and the illness doesn’t go evolve into something more serious.

It seems that we seriously influence our children’s vibration until they move away (which I think is the truth). You can’t create in another’s experience. That is what I remember Abraham saying. But we seem to be able to do that with our children? I’m confused I guess. I know, as adults, we do influence others with our vibration. Ever have a really crappy day and end up making other’s have a crappy time when they are around you? The thing with that is that people can walk away from you and move to a better feeling place. But with children, it seems as if we can impose our vibration on them to their severe detriment.

How, as a parent, who is slowly working her way through this law of attraction thing, help her children not be influenced negatively by my issues? How do I come to terms with the fact that Dad and kids battle ferociously at times and be okay with it? It really isn’t a struggle, but at times, I feel as if I am not going with the flow with this parenting stuff. What is our role as parents in this Abraham-ian paradigm?