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Abraham Hicks Workshop
Stamford CT 5/29/2010
Masters CD 2 Track 10
“Getting His Daughter to Clean Her Room”

Hot Seater: Alright, I’ve got one more. It might be impossible. How can I get my daughter to clean her room? Should I just leave?

Abraham: The conversation that your inner beings are having is your daughter’s inner being is saying “How can I get my dad to stop trying to control the uncontrollable and understand what is his business and what isn’t?”

And the profound, inspirsed answer was Keep a messy room. You’ll wear him down in time. He’ll come to understand that..that…because conditional love is “I feel better when your room is clean and I want to feel good so I’m making my happiness dependant on your behavior.” And this rebellious source energy being within is remembering “Oh no no no no noooo. We said that we would be catalyst to one another to help one another remember unconditional love. We would help one another remember that when you try to control the uncontrollable you just end up out of the vortex. And when you control the only thing you can control, which is your relationship to the vortex, then you tune into the energy that creates worlds and then your influence is powerful.

Now we just gave you the law based version of this, now we will give you the nitty gritty details of how we would go about it because it’s alright. You have the right to desire a room to be clean. We’re really not saying that it’s none of your business. It’s in your house. You see it effect the way things go on. There’s disorder and therefore disorganization and therefore it can have ramifications on the household and other people. In other words, we’re playing with you when we say it doesn’t effect you because, of course, it does. But when we say “it’s none of your business” we mean that in this deep deep sense. What IS your business is your alignment and anything that you use as an excuse to not be in alignment, you’re misusing it, you see.

And so, it’s like “I can’t feel good until they plug the oil spill or I can’t feel good until the economy improves or I can’t feel good for this…” there’s always some excuse that people are using. Some small reasons by the scope of human events and some big reasons but people keep using so many things as their excuse to not be in alignment with who they are. And the bottom line is, there is no excuse. There is no justifiable excuse to hold yourself out of alignment with who you are. And some of the people that, who mean the most to you have come with that very powerful intention for – you’ve come with a sort of co-intention to help each other remember that we’re not going to spend, we’re not going to WASTE our lives trying to control uncontrollable things. Instead we’re going to contol the only thing we can control which is our opinion, which is our relationship with who we really are. And when we control that relationship with our being in the vortex, now law of attraction brings everything else into being.

And that’s that power of influence, that we were talking about. When you’re tuned into the fullness of who you are, you’re sending one signal. And when you send one signal, you’re more powerful than millions who are out there with mixed signals. So it works liek this – So the room is messy, you want it to be orderly. Your daughter is, is, sort of out of sorts, you want her to feel good. A lot of things you put into your vortex as a result of that one, ongoing issue. So you’ve been building this, this version of your daughter and her relationship with her room and her relationship with life and her relationship with the family. You’ve been building this version for a long time that you get to do. In other words, every person that you meet, even if you just meet them on the elevator, you actually put a version of them, as they relate to you, into your vortex. And then, you have one responsibility, isn’t the perfect word, but it will do. You have one responsibility, only. And that is to live up to the version that you put there. Which isn’t easy to do when she’s over there living the version that inspired it.

And so, what happens is, you’ve put a different version into your vortex. She’s still living the old version. You’re, in your now, observing the old version, using it as the excuse not to be in alignment with the new version.

Are you following this? This is REALLY a good discussion because it’s what happens so often. The people, that you interact with, have helped you to co-create this vortex that you now, owe it to yourself, to live up to. And when you don’t, no matter what the reason, you don’t feel good.

So this is what your daughter and you both knew before you came into these bodies. “If I”, speaking from your daughter’s point of view, “If I adjust my behavior, so that it matches my father’s version, then he doesn’t have to do any focusing in order to feel better.”

Oh, stay with us, this is really, really important. “I’ll be a pleaser. I’ll scamper around and try to figure out as best I can, I can’t do it very well because, as we talked earlier, everybody’s got a different perception of things, but I’ll do my best, to be such a reader of people’s minds, and such a deliverer of what they want, I’ll be such a pleaser that I’ll do my very best to live up to their version of the vortex.”

And many people would say, “Well, good child. You get the gold star. You make mommy happy. You make teachers happy. You are a high performer. You are fitting in all of the right niches.” And we say, what you’re really doing, pleaser person, that you didn’t mean to do, is that you are making it unnecessary for your father to ever tend to his own vortex. And you’re the only one who’s going to do it because you care so much about him. And, so, and usually it’s the other way around. It’s a parent or a.. Children try to please their parents. It’s a natural thing. And parents … *laughter* especially in the beginning.

Hot Seater: In the beginning…

Abraham: What we’re getting at is, there’s a bigger intention that is brewing that, in most cases, doesn’t keep it going very long and then parents write books like, “Where did my little girl go? Oh I remember how you were in the beginning. We used to snuggle and nothing was more important to you than pleasing me. And THEN you became the demon child.” And you got the point, didn’t you. In other words, if… let’s take a, let’s take lovers who are… if you decide that this person’s approval matters so much to you, that you keep standing on your head to please them, two really screwy things happens. First is – You use them as your criteria so you train yourself away from your own guidance system. So then that person’s always got to be there and got to be consistent, which isn’t going to happen. The other thing that happens, that is equally screwy and unsettling, is that you train that person into feeling good, without doing the work of coming into alignment. So, now, they’re running around looking for other conditions to change and that’s how that whole spiral happens. Everybody is running around trying to get other people to change the condition. Look what happens, “You need to be our religion and if you’re not, we will obliterate your religion. We’ll blast you off the face of the earth. First we will try to convince you. Then we’ll coerce you, and then we’ll eliminate you if we can’t get you to come our way.” Or… or… And it goes on and on and on and on and on. In other words, this world tends to begin to propogate conformity for the sake of socialization and for the sake of then not having to do the work. In other words, it is a lot easier … it seems that “well if I look at I feel bad and if I look at that, I feel good so if I can just make that be that then all I have to do is look and I’ll feel good. So I’m going to be part of the crowd that tries to control conditions so that I can feel better.”

And we say, “How’s it working out?” It isn’t working out well at all. Where feel the ease of not trying to control the uncontrollable. It is just amazing to see your Earth response to an oil leak, that for the time being, appears to be uncontrollable. You’re not dealing with it very well emotionally, those who are wrapped up in it, because you can’t do anything about it and when you look at it, it makes you feel bad. This oil leak is sort of like your uncontrollable daughter giving you the option to come into alignment anyway because you have no choice.

Don’t you just love it? We just love to talk to people who are terminally ill because they’re more likely to do the only thing that works anyway, when they have no more options, you see.

So, that’s really what this is about. It is the subject of alignment for the sake of alignment, not justified alignment on the heels of controlling someone else.

Hot Seater: Thank you.

Abraham: Oh, wasn’t that good?

I now understand the futility of anything I am doing or saying or thinking
while outside the vortex. I have made a decision, right here, right now,
that I am going, to the best of my ability, moment after moment, I am going
to be in the vortex.

And in making that decision, that you will find yourself there 10% more
tomorrow than you were today, and the next day, 10% more until within a
matter of 10 days, two weeks at most, you will have moved your position from
mostly outside the vortex to mostly inside the vortex.

And what that means from a manifestational standpoint is things that you
have been waiting for for a long time are going to show up and show up fast.

What it also means is your level of joy is going to begin to soar in
unexpected ways.

Your ability to think will become clearer and people will be quite amazed at
the clarity of your being. Your physical apparatus will come into
alignment. Medicines you have been using will become unnecessary.
Conditions of your body that have been unpleasant will begin to fall away.
Muscle toning will begin to take place. You will begin to breathe more
deeply. The metabolism of your body will come into alignment.

Every relationship that you have, you will find improvement in it. Your
ability to perceive what’s going on on the planet will be moved to new
heights. Your ability to create whatever you are wanting, when ever you are
wanting it, will become apparent, not only to you, but to others who are
looking at you.

You are the creator of your experience. You now understand the Laws of the
Universe, the guidance system within you and the vortex where all
cooperative components are assembled.

Boca Raton, FL 3/24/10

Thanks to Connee for sending this quote to the Abe Quotes email list.

Others cannot understand the vibrational content of your desires, and they cannot understand the vibrational content of where you are, so they are not in any way equipped to guide you. Even when they have the very best of intentions and want your absolute Well-Being, they do not know. And even through many of them attempt to be unselfish, it is never possible for them to separate their desire for you from their own desire for themselves.

From the Ask and It’s Given Perpetual Flip Calendar for May 18th

Once you get the hang of this, once you care about feeling your way into the vortex…

We offered a game to Esther and she had such fun with it. When she was, she loved that feeling of ease and flow so much. We encouraged her to start through the alphabet and choose a word that begins with ‘A’ that feels in the vortex to her.

And so, from inside the vortex, it was easy. She said “appreciation” and then just held the thought long enough that she received the feeling of complete alignment with her source. And then we said “choose a ‘B’ word” and she said “Bask, that’s easy. Clarity, that’s easy. Delicious. Divine. That’s easy. Energy. Easy. Ease. All easy. Fun. Full. Focus.”

Now, from inside the vortex, Focus, ohhh Focus is fun. Focus feels GREAT if you are inside the vortex. If you’re not in the vortex, and you think Focus, now it feels like harder work. So, what you do, you get in the vortex and you’re pretty sure you’re in there and then, play the Alphabet Game. In other words, it’s so fun to find more, in the vortex, emotional words. Esther found that if she would preface her search for the word with “I feel…” “I feel More. I feel…I feel Moved. I feel Magnificient. I feel Zest. I feel Joy. I feel Happiness.”

In other words, as you want to feel and you reach for those words that you consciously acknowledge feel good to you. What happens is, you’re going to train yourself. You’re going to train your vibration. You’re going to train your point of attraction. You’re going to train your point of attraction into everything you have asked for. And then what happens is, it has to start showing up. So then it gets easier and easier and easier because not only, then, are you proactive because you are deliberately going to the vortex that no one else can see and you are deliberately reaching for a feeling that feels good only to you because you are in there all alone. In other words, you’re deliberately doing it, but if you do it long enough, what begins to happen… and long enough we only mean a day or two or three or four, a week, a month … in other words as you practice this for fifteen or twenty minutes every day, you will train your vibration into a new point of attraction. And then, you will begin experiencing a life that you can then react to.

Wonderful life. In other words, isn’t it great when there is someone loveable standing right before you who is so easy to love? But before you know about the vortex, and before you know about how you can find the feeling of love even if you are surrounded by scoundrels. Before you know that, then, lovable ones usually just train you to be annoyed at those who aren’t lovable. You say, “You know, you could be more lovable and I would feel better.” {laughter} “If your behavior were better, I would have a better life.” And there is no premise more flawed or more disadvantaged to you, than to beleive that something that you have no control over has to be different before you can feel better. When you show yourself that you can feel better, unconditionally, now you are one who lives unconditional love, as the source within you always does. And now, you can be the deliberate creator of your experience. And nothing is more fun, than to be in a physical body, in this leading edge time space reality, where contrast is giving you constant new bounces. So expansion is rampant and then have the power and the wisdom to focus your energy, your thoughts, your emotions into alignment with all of that. And, then, to get to watch the universe knock itself out to bring you the manifestations to show you your worthiness. That’s why you came. That’s why you came.

Credit
“Have you begun playing Abraham’s ‘Alphabet Game’?”
Disc 1 N. Los Angeles CA – 2/20/2010 – Masters Track 5
Abraham-Hicks Publications

Need some help with finding your “getting into the vortex” words? Here’s a long list of them!