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If you entered your current relationship from a place of mostly alignment, its potential for returning to a wonderful feeling-place is great. If you entered this relationship because you were in a process of escaping from something unpleasant, then the basis of this relationship may be more about what you do not want than about what you do want.

The Vortex by Esther and Jerry Hicks – page 41

As of late, I have been thinking about the croaking experience, in general.

My amazing husband is currently one of those blessed “paddle up stream” people, who I have learned so much from for MY journey from! I SO appreciate being part of his life. Gotta love those beloved soul groups you come forth with

This train of thought started when I had a thought that was really funny, to me. I envisioned that, when we both had croaked, that I would finally, definitely, be able to say, laughingly and lovingly, “SEEEEE I told you so!” in reference to what was to come for us. Abraham always says that your vortex is there for the allowing at any time and some people are able to get it while in physical and some get it once they croak. I, personally, am aspiring to the allowing while still in physical.

That thought morphed into something else that made me wonder if Abraham had ever addressed it in any workshops. I know they focus mainly on how to help us in physical, so it may not be addressed, but it will be fun to chew on the topic with other beautiful Abers.

Okay, here goes.

I envision that the amount of source, that is expressed into this physical experience, is like a leg’s, or possibly even a much smaller body part, like a little toe’s worth. The full body of the Source, that we are, is there expanding and enjoying the life that we are creating through the contrast we are experiencing in physical.

Based on that analogy, I have pondered a few questions:

When someone croaks, aren’t we already there to greet them?

Would the re-emergence into non physical be an Ah-Ha! moment? Our Inner Being/Source already has a full view of what truly is going on so there shouldn’t be any ah-ha only an immense AHHHH and appreciation and love for all the growth that happened due to the experience on the leading edge.

I wonder, if while we are here in knocking around in physical, shooting off all these glorious rockets of desire, if our source beings of our soul group are there evaluating, toghether, sort of like an amazing tribal council or if they are out playing in the amusement part of fantastic stuff and experiences that we all have created?

Yes, I know that, while in physical, most of us don’t have the answers to these ponderings, but they are still fun to think about!

Hope you all have an amazing, wonderful, magic day!

Love,
Vickie

It’s been quite a while since I have posted anything regarding my personal journey. I had hit a point where I was choosing to look at things in a way that wasn’t favorable to where I ultimately wanted to be. I focused on the less than good feeling aspects of my life and my relationship and it just felt BAD. I knew I needed to do something to change my focus but had a very hard time getting to a different feeling place. I did have the good sense to NOT post on and on about it LOL but chose to work my way up the emotional scale, as well as I could, when I was able.

Co-creation can be a difficult road at times. When my husband and I found each other over 12 years ago, I was definitely in a place that was a match to where he was. We were both striving to become bigger and better and basically conquer the world together. As the years went on, and I discovered EFT, Abraham and the Law of Attraction, I started feeling that a widening gap was appearing. And then, he was diagnosed with PTSD. My dream of living, happily, well into old age, with him, was becoming harder and harder to envision and I mourned for what I thought I was losing.

The past couple of weeks have been particularly difficult for me for some reason. I can’t pinpoint what exactly the issue is, but I could tell that it felt bad. I was torn about what I should do. I didn’t know if envisioning our future together was crossing the lines of “creating in another’s reality” which Abraham says you are unable to do. Was I holding onto a vision that wasn’t possible? In my heart, I felt, and feel, that we are meant to be together, happily, for a VERY long time. The path we have traveled together the past couple of years, has had me heavily focusing on the things that I don’t want instead of what I do want.

These issues were creating a “funk zone” for me where I would put my head down and muddle through, trying to figure out what my next step was.

Today, I had a wake up call from a very unexpected place.

I was sitting at a stop light and looked up at the truck that was stopped beside me.

While you can’t see the full text in the picture, due to the traffic moving, the message said:

“Create Your Dream”.

I turned the corner and started crying. The message could not have been more clear to me. I have been focusing in the wrong direction long enough and it was time to create what I really wanted.

I still had the doubt in me, though, and had to make sure that my dream was something that my husband would also want. I went home and we had another conversation. The PTSD makes it so he can’t really focus into the future. He plans moment to moment in order to make it through the day. So, I let him know what MY dream for us was and asked him if he could see that too. It was a powerful, emotional conversation. We are both on board with the vision of a happy, long future together. It is something that he would want too. What RELIEF for me! So now, I can create away and envision the future the way I want it to be – Together, Whole and Happy. We WILL get there, I have full faith in that!

Tell everyone you know: “My happiness depends on me, so you’re off the hook.” And then demonstrate it. Be happy, no matter what they’re doing. Practice feeling good, no matter what. And before you know it, you will not give anyone else responsibility for the way you feel—and then, you’ll love them all. Because the only reason you don’t love them, is because you’re using them as your excuse to not feel good.

Excerpted from a workshop in Asheville, NC on Saturday, April 30th, 2005
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