Archive for May, 2007

Let your dominant intent be…

Let your dominant intent be to feel good which means be playful, have fun, laugh often, look for reasons to appreciate and practice the art of appreciation. And as you practice it, the Universe, who has been watching you practice, will give you constant opportunities to express it. So that your life just gets better and better and better.

Excerpted from the workshop in Atlanta, GA on Saturday, September 13th, 1997

Ahhh… a little time before the schedule of daily life starts up again

How about a little appreciation today…

I SO appreciate that my emotional guidance system is working just as it should and that I am more aware of where I want to be in regards to things that cause contrast in my life.

I appreciate that the law of attraction has brought me a new employee that I think fits the bill She didn’t have all the things on my list, but I am confident that she will have all of the list items within a month or two. I can do that. I am very appreciative of the fact that she will be available and eager to learn everything about our business. I can see her as being a long term keeper.

I appreciate that my husband and I are working together to get over the bumps of depression. Sometimes it is a bit tough to see past our own issues to understand what is going on with the other. I appreciate that he is doing the best he can to get better and that he is listening to the things that I am missing in our relationship due to the depression.

I appreciate that I have a personal trainer at the gym who catches me out on the negative talk. He talks LOA even without realizing that he is talking my language.

Life is Good and All’s Well Here’s to a wonderful day!

En-JOY your day!

You attract by your vibration. Everything in the Universe is experiencing the powerful Law of attraction…And when you are vibrating in pain, you cannot attract joy. The vibration of pain attracts only pain. The vibration of joy attracts only joy, the vibration of illness attracts illness…The Law IS, and the wonderful thing is that once you understand the Law, and you are sensitive enough to feel how you are vibrating, then you have control of your experience.

Abraham - G 6/6/92

The time to hire a new full time employee is upon me. I have two great employees right now but their lives are growing and changing and one will certainly be leaving for new exciting life adventures within the next couple of months.

Before I place the ad, I am going to do some focusing on what I want from this employee so the universe knows what to bring me. With my first hire, I couldn’t have hoped for a better person. She came in a time of upheaval and helps us keep the business flowing. I know I WANT that again. I want the perfect combination of the two I currently have.

My Perfect Employee:

• Eager to do all aspects of the business - product prep, clerical, order processing, customer service, business accounting.
• Has experience with Quickbooks and our credit card processing software.
• Comfortable talking about indepth female and male fertility related issues.
• Is someone I feel comfortable running the company so I can take a vacation with confidence.
• Has ecommerce experience.
• Wants to see the business grow and eager to do what it takes to make it happen.
• Is able to learn quickly and has a great memory.
• Is friendly, calm and confident.
• Pays great attention to detail.
• Is reliable and trustworthy.
• Is eager to learn about our business.
• Doesn’t mind working in a small office - usually one or two other people in the office.
• A knowledge of LOA would be awesome.
• Can work 10 to 6 Monday through Friday.
• Comfortable and knowledgable with using computers and the internet.
• Comfortable answering customer support emails and phone calls.
• Is extremely healthy.
• Is happy with the salary being offered.
• Is able to give her full attention to the job with limited potential outside distractions.
• Is a non-smoker.

Hmmm, that seems like it covers it. I may do a bit of tweaking but that is definitely the essence of the perfect employee for our company. Ah! That felt good! Okay Universe, you heard me, now steer the perfect person my way. I KNOW I will find the perfect employee!

I came across a very interesting question recently and it really goes well with another post that I made recently about our childhood baggage that we carry with us.

The person was saying that he understood about law of attraction and so forth, but couldn’t get his mind around the fact that he ended up with parents who appeared not to want him and treated him that way. I am fairly certain there are MANY people out there that can identify with that feeling. He, then, went on to ask if we choose the people we are born to and why in the world would spirit choose such a harsh start to life.

You came forward into this body from a place of total joy, total loving, and worthiness seeking to be on the leading edge of expansion. You were eager for all interactions that life here could give you. The interactions lead to expanded desires. For some, those expanded desires are spurred on by not so great beginnings. Due to the interactions that you had, you launched some VERY strong rockets of desire about what you DID want.

It may be hard to hear and believe, but, EVERYTHING you could possibly want is waiting for you, you just need to get into vibrational alignment with it. Every time someone made you feel unloved, you shot off a rocket of desire that said you wanted to have interactions that made you feel loved. Any interaction where you felt unsafe made you acutely aware of how much you really wanted to feel safe. Any time you felt unwanted, you knew how much you really wanted to be accepted for who you are.

The universe / source heard every part of it, saying you should know and that you are worthy of all that could possibly want and fully agreed that your desires were valid and is ready to provide all the things you wanted to have back then, but were not able to get.

You have some amazing people, interactions, and things waiting for you in your vibrational escrow, as Abraham puts it. Everything that you ever dreamed of is yours and will come to you if you can get yourself into vibrational alignment with that which you are wanting. If you stop and imagine being accepted for who you are, you can feel how that feels. Now, feel the anger surrounding how you weren’t accepted as a child. You can feel the vast difference in the two vibrations. Law of Attraction can not bring you the interactions that will allow you to feel accepted for who you are until you your dominant vibration closer to how you think being accepted will feel.

It is all about going with the flow of the stream and when you realize that you are paddling upstream with how you are feeling to try and make changes that will make you feel better. It is all about feeling better. You can’t control what other people do or think but you do have control over how you feel.

Abraham has a great emotional scale that will help you get to better feeling thoughts which will raise your vibration so you can claim what is yours.

On the scale, find where you are in regards to an issue that you are dealing with.

Perhaps you are really angry about something. Spend a bit of time feeling really angry about it and then pick an emotion a bit of the scale and see if you can think about what you are feeling with the up the scale emotion you chose. Can you turn that anger around and make it more blameful toward the perpetrator? “It’s all YOUR fault that this is the way it is!” Maybe from there you can move up to worry - “What if I NEVER get this sorted out?” “What if I never am able to let go of the past?”

If you take the Angry thoughts you started with and compare it to the Blame and then the Worry, you CAN feel a difference in how they feel. You don’t have to make a jump up to Joy from where you currently are, but you can take baby steps in a better feeling direction.

Okay, so how does this getting to a better feeling thought about it all help? Well, when you go from a very negative feeling thought to a less negative feeling thought, you have turned your boat around and are now going downstream. And as Abraham says, EVERYTHING that you want is DOWNSTREAM. When you reach for a better feeling thought about something that is bothering you, and get there, you raise your vibration and are heading in the direction of what you have in store for you in your vibrational escrow. If you can work your way up the emotional scale in regards to the feelings you have about your childhood, the kick you currently feel in your stomach when you think about it, will lose the kick and it won’t have you in it’s vice grip any longer. Yes it may still be bothersome to you, but you can get to a point about it where it does not carry a negatively charged emotion with it. And you will realize that your worth is not dependent on anyone else’s approval of you. Your inner being and source knows that you are you are worthy and you are loved. Try and move up the emotional scale so YOU realize that as well.