Okay. Something is really up, but I am not exactly sure where it is coming from. Honestly, I think I am doing really well most of the time. Until, that is, something crops up and pops me on the head, out of the blue… or out of the oblivious as Abraham is fond of saying.

I think my husband’s illness is wearing me down. I want to be okay with it all, and feel that I am, most of the time. But when I am not okay with it, boy, am I NOT okay with it all. I currently have a strong stress undercurrent going on about it all. It’s kind of funny and kind of annoying in an “I did that” sort of way. Right now the stress is manifesting in facial twitching - not anything that anyone would really notice but me. The more stressed I get, the more I twitch. Fun.

My husband and I can, and do, discuss all this. The communication is there and it is always a case of both of us being heard and understood. It’s a loving, understanding conversation, but, unfortunately, at this point, there is only so much that he can do to sort things out. He’s trying to get to where he wants to be and his lack of getting there is not due to unwillingness or lack of effort.

I am at a point where I realize that where I am is not where I want to be. I know that my happiness is up to me no matter what the circumstances are. I’m not able to get there right now and it bothers me. I felt the fool yesterday when I was driving home and started crying when “I Can See Clearly” by Jimmy Nash started playing on the radio.

I have been tapping on all the issues on a regular basis, but the fact stands that he is unable to be there for me emotionally or physically. I am tired of tapping on the same issues over and over again. For some reason, my stress over it all keeps coming back. I just want to be okay with it all. I want to be happy no matter what is going on around me. It’s my choice to stay or go and I have chosen to stay. I am just muddling my way to seeing the situation clearly. I am so ready for my blue skies and rainbows, but keep seeing the obstacles instead.

I’ll get there….. eventually. The solution will come, I know. Sigh….

In this video, Jordan is sharing her version of the basics of EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques).

If you are interested in working with Jordan directly, you can schedule an appointment from her website, http://www.ezhealthyme.com

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The Basics of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)

I came across this video from a post on SpiritualBlog.com. This series of videos from Jordan Savage, an EFT expert, are very nicely done and I really enjoyed watching them. I am going to share the full series on my blog for your viewing pleasure.

In this video, Jordan is telling about the basics of EFT and how she came to study EFT.

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The Concept of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)

“… you cannot offer anyone something that is less advantageous to them than to see them as they feel and as they are trying to get you to see them. People argue for their limitations all the time. They say, “It’s not going well” and you try to cheer them up, and the more you try to cheer them up, the more they try to convince you that you shouldn’t be trying to cheer them up.

And they’re not deliberately trying to drag you into the abyss, it’s just all they know right now. And if you go there, you leave your Inner Being behind. And then you are down there wallowing in this discomfort together and then you come to resent them, because you felt better before you tried to help them.

So you finally get it that you cannot help anybody unless you are feeling good.

And, oh, here’s the corker! When you’re feeling really good and they’re feeling really bad, you might not be the one to help them anyway. Because the frequencies are pretty far apart. So then you just keep seeing them as you see them and knowing that somebody along the way, somebody who feels a little better than them will lead them a little, and somebody who feels a little better than them will lead them, and somebody who feels a little better than them will lead them.

And then pretty soon, they’ll be in your vibrational range and then you’ll feel exaltation together!!!”

San Antonio, 4/21/07

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